Breakup......

Breakup is it a malediction? It is the worse thing which could happen to anyone. The heart seeks for someone very badly. You feel that your loved one should not be happy at all with her new partner and you start cursing her and feel jealous. It is very true because she has substituted your position and you are awaiting to substitute. You feel heartbroken because you don't have a person to talk to and hug or kiss but she has someone with whom she can make love. Breakup should never be considered mazy when you have not volunteered or to be blamed. There might be N number of reasons but it happens only if one of you is not convinced with the relationship. Think that the person is insensate and doesn't deserve you.Kill the thoughts of your loved one by burning her photograph or vituperate her over a call or anything which you feel will relieve your pain and regrets. It sounds puerile but it definitely works and the great example is JAB WE MET movie and in life the the actors are real. Believe me life moves on, things change and you resume back to your normal life. Have you ever wondered how the life was before you met the person? being single is a blessing because you have the freedom to do anything what you want and have enough time to fight a war. Just get accustom to the new life set goals and work towards achieving it which would be easy to say but very difficult to execute. Just thank god that you came to know about the Girl's attitude before you could get into any serious commitment. Imagine the consequences if it happened after your marriage. Just divert your mind with music or any other activities which interests you. As you start to develop some emotional distance, spend some time thoughtfully considering your failed relationship. What were your failures? What could you have done better? What have you learned from the relationship? What are you going to do in the future to give your next relationship a better chance for success? You made a big personal and emotional investment in a relationship that ultimately failed. I think it is really important to learn something from your experience. There can be some really unpleasant days after a relationship break up. There are people who really care about you. Reach out to them.Getting over a break up takes time. Try to always remember, with time, there will be better days.

Love is sempiternal so love and live every moment of life!! And Believe,

Breakup is a Blessing in disguise...........

What is LoVe??

The best and most beautiful things in the world can't be seen, nor touched, but are felt in the heart. Love is not just a feeling to be shared. Love is strong yet delicate.It can be broken.To truly love is to understand this.To be in true love means that you trust someone with everything. To be in love is to respect this. Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. There are three great things in this world,The first thing is for you to love someone, The second thing is for someone to love you back And the third greatest thing is for the first and second thing to happen at the same time.It's hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does. Always remember to ask this question to your self." Do you love me because I am beautiful, or am I beautiful because you love me? " After saying all the above things still it is not enough to define love. Love is not only sharing, caring or giving one's heart but to understand, compromise, adjust in life and to tell the other soul that you exist to support in every aspect of their life, in every difficulty he/she face. To be in love with someone is easy but to marry the same person and to live with him is reality and you need to have the confidence, trust and dedication to make it happen failing which your LOVE fails.Love is like sunshine. It brings a golden glow to its beholder's face. And a warm feeling all over their body. It awakens souls and opens eyes. And when its over, it leaves zillions of small memories called stars. To remind the world, that it still exists. My LOVE still exists.......will remain forever!!