Breakup......

Breakup is it a malediction? It is the worse thing which could happen to anyone. The heart seeks for someone very badly. You feel that your loved one should not be happy at all with her new partner and you start cursing her and feel jealous. It is very true because she has substituted your position and you are awaiting to substitute. You feel heartbroken because you don't have a person to talk to and hug or kiss but she has someone with whom she can make love. Breakup should never be considered mazy when you have not volunteered or to be blamed. There might be N number of reasons but it happens only if one of you is not convinced with the relationship. Think that the person is insensate and doesn't deserve you.Kill the thoughts of your loved one by burning her photograph or vituperate her over a call or anything which you feel will relieve your pain and regrets. It sounds puerile but it definitely works and the great example is JAB WE MET movie and in life the the actors are real. Believe me life moves on, things change and you resume back to your normal life. Have you ever wondered how the life was before you met the person? being single is a blessing because you have the freedom to do anything what you want and have enough time to fight a war. Just get accustom to the new life set goals and work towards achieving it which would be easy to say but very difficult to execute. Just thank god that you came to know about the Girl's attitude before you could get into any serious commitment. Imagine the consequences if it happened after your marriage. Just divert your mind with music or any other activities which interests you. As you start to develop some emotional distance, spend some time thoughtfully considering your failed relationship. What were your failures? What could you have done better? What have you learned from the relationship? What are you going to do in the future to give your next relationship a better chance for success? You made a big personal and emotional investment in a relationship that ultimately failed. I think it is really important to learn something from your experience. There can be some really unpleasant days after a relationship break up. There are people who really care about you. Reach out to them.Getting over a break up takes time. Try to always remember, with time, there will be better days.

Love is sempiternal so love and live every moment of life!! And Believe,

Breakup is a Blessing in disguise...........